This is what a feminist looks like
From a comment:
What is a feminist ? I really have never come to grasp a concrete definition of this. I know that feminine = womanly, and then there is the -ist. I still don't get it.
And how come they are mostly ugly and lesbian looking. It seems feminists are the least feminine women
I think this was meant to be facetious, but it brings up some interesting points:
Is being 'womanly' in a 'feminine' way a good, bad or neutral thing?
Why does everyone think lesbians are all butch?
Why is a butch woman routinely stereotyped as being ugly? It's really not the case that these things are in any way linked.
I'm stumped by these attitudes, because I just see the world in a different way.
I'm somewhere between sporty tomboy and nailpolish girly. I'm ambivalent about the whole 'feminine' thing- I think it looks good on some people, and it's fun to have men look at you like you're irresistable. But, I don't want to personally suffer for beauty. Pantyhose sucks. At the end of the day, I'm sick of wearing an underwire and can't wait to take it off.
Men: try dressing up in women's clothes, a la Mel Gibson in What Women Want and you'll see what we mean. You'll gain a new appreciation for the unfairness of it all. If someone said you had to do it every day, you wouldn't.
And re: your obvious jealousy of lesbians, GET OVER IT.